Something I've discovered is that no matter who you are or how hard you try, people will always make assumptions about you and the words you say while you may be somebody entirely different or mean something completely opposite of what they thought you meant. It happens to all of us and we have all done it at a time. There's no point in throwing a fit over it or wasting time trying to prove a thought that will never be understood. You need to let it go, have an open hand and not cling so desperately hard to something you can never get across to that person.
Sometimes there is nothing you can say or do to fix the problem or make somebody understand. You just have to have grace for that person and be okay knowing they will never understand you. Friendship is hard and there are times when no matter how hard you try, things will never be the same. So, you stop crying, pick yourself up and decide to care about the person where they are at and not try to make them understand. You will never be the same kind of friends again but that's okay, everything happens for a reason.
I think we should simply love. Love is not a simple thing in anyway, it's something to work at everyday. But the steps are simple.
Step #1: LOVE.
Step #2: Repeat step #1.
I LOVE this! Amen, sista. Amen.
ReplyDeleteForgive, Love, rinse, repeat. Love it! <3
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